PESAN UNTUK WALI SANTRI: JANGAN PUTUS JALUR KEBERKAHAN ANAK
1. Kunci Kesuksesan Anak
Di balik hafalan dan ketangguhan seorang santri, ada doa dan adab orang tua yang menjadi sumber kekuatannya.
2. Jangan Tutup Pintu Berkah
Sikap orang tua yang sering mencari-cari kesalahan pengurus/guru, ikut campur aturan pesantren, atau memanjakan anak hingga melanggar tata tertib, justru dapat memutus aliran keberkahan bagi anak.
3. Adab Orang Tua Membentuk Karakter Anak
Kurangnya sopan santun orang tua terhadap pihak pesantren bisa menjadi benih kedurhakaan dan pembangkangan di hati anak kelak.
4. Hal yang Perlu Diingat:
- Ilmu bisa dibaca di buku, tapi keberkahan hanya didapatkan lewat ridho guru.
- Jangan mudah percaya keluhan anak tanpa mencari tahu fakta yang sebenarnya.
- Hindari ucapan yang hanya mengkritik tanpa solusi.
5. Tugas Orang Tua
Bersikaplah ikhlas dan pasrah. Biarkan anak dididik dan ditempa dengan disiplin pesantren. Tugas kita hanyalah mendoakan, bukan meruntuhkan wibawa guru di hadapan anak.
Semoga para wali santri senantiasa diberikan kesehatan, rezeki yang berlimpah, dan penuh keberkahan
ENGLISH
A MESSAGE FOR PARENTS OF STUDENTS: DO NOT CUT OFF THE CHANNEL OF BLESSINGS FOR YOUR CHILD
1. The Key to a Child's Success
Behind a student's memorization and strong determination lies the prayers and good manners (adab) of their parents, which serve as their true source of strength.
2. Do Not Close the Door of Blessings
Parents who constantly find fault with teachers or staff, interfere with the school's rules, or spoil their children to the point of breaking regulations—actually risk cutting off the flow of blessings for their own children.
3. Parental Etiquette Shapes the Child's Character
A lack of respect from parents towards the Islamic boarding school (pesantren) can plant seeds of disobedience and rebellion in the child's heart in the future.
4. Things to Remember:
- Knowledge can be found in books, but blessings flow only through the pleasure and approval of the teacher.
- Do not easily believe your child's complaints without first finding out the real facts.
- Avoid harsh words that only criticize without offering solutions.
5. The Role of Parents
Be sincere and trust the process. Allow your child to be shaped and disciplined by the school environment. Our duty is simply to pray, not to diminish the authority of the teachers in the eyes of the child.
May all parents be granted good health, abundant provision, and endless blessings.
IN SUMMARY
Teachers are entrusted with the task of channeling blessings. Although God remains the Ultimate Source of all things, every creation is given their own role and mandate to fulfill
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